On Inspiring (“helping/healing”) Others.

Your Greatest Gift to Others is in Your Smile from Heart First and foremost, if you are in your Shining, in your Presence, then you have already brought the greatest gift you could to those you are in the company of. In your countenance, your smile, through your eyes, from your heart, comes the magic of Flow which even a fractional part of others knows full well. And so in essence there is nothing to do, nothing that has or needs to be said for The Gift to be given. It can pass "unseen and unheard", but felt, heart to heart.

Be Open to Those You are Helping as Being Your Teacher

When I first started my counselling and therapy work 45 years ago I resolved to trust my training to the Universe and trust the “patient/client” to bring to me what they needed for me to help them with, and to trust myself that what I did would lead to the most benevolent outcome for all concerned. I cannot remember it ever not working. There was no system or theory or conceptualised work that was needed. My trusting and life trained me, and those who came and still come to me are my teachers. How beautiful is that? How amazing are they? No wonder I am in awe of our nature and cannot buy into human weakness but see mostly the strength of the human spirit.

I see the whole “veil “ is simply that we have bought into the unkind lie that we are not enough and not to be trusted, which is saying we are not Divine and Creators of all that we experience. There were times when I scared myself at the things I said to people (like telling someone to “grow up, take their life in hand, rather than play poor me, and to go away”). Of course I doubted often, and I still look to be aware of my ego, it is part of being human. Truly being with others is mostly doing and being together in that moment and not preconceiving what you are going to do with them, how you want the experience to go, or prempting the reaction or the outcome for you or the other. You mind your own business and let them mind their own. So when they have gone from your presence there is no deep post mortum. Just trust, knowing love and an expanded feeling of joy for the honour of knowing them.

With Love and Trust in Yourself and the Other Miracles Happen

What I am saying is if you Love and are open and trust yourself and trust that the other person will show you what they need to be reflected back to them, then there is absolutely no reason to be afraid of what you might say to anyone. You will always do the right thing by them even if they get peeved, slam the door in your face, break down and cry their heart out, or get up and hug you and fall in love with you. The power of love works miracles even if a person goes away and you never see them again. I have seen time and again the result of these miracles of transformation through self empowerment even if it is 20-30 years later. Love is never ever wasted. It is the Truth and the proof of free energy. You are love incarnate and so you can do anything. If you really know the power in your own freedom then that is what you can gift others by your mere Presence. The knowing and the loving are the expanding energy that calls to like in the field of another.

There is no longer any need to be afraid of ego if you befriend it. You have learned well how to be aware. The ego is a most beautiful safeguard and keeps us awake to our own process at all times. Shine and Share it dear friends.

I So Love You